While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil. ~John Taylor
This weekend, a very good family friend of ours passed away. I guess it sort of feels belittling to call him just a friend, because to our family he was a brother, a son and so much more. While, I have taken these past few days to grieve, and cry, it seems now that I have begun to look at this experience in a more positive light.
When we lose someone we love, so many feelings are thrown our way. Anger, heartache, sorrow, and devastation to name a few. But I think it's more important to look at the times that were shared, because when situations such as this occur, we realize just how short our lives are. I can honestly say that I was so lucky to have known Jarod, and to have spent over 4 years getting to know him. He has such a light about him, such a touch that he brings to people. You really will never meet a kid like him!
My heart goes out to the Martarano family, as they deal with their times of grief and pain. But I want them to know how fondly their son was look at. How I know that this experience will change so many lives. Each and everyday you wake up, do it for your son. Go on living your everyday activities with him still in your heart, and fond memories of him in the back on your mind. That is what he would want.
Heaven is TRULY blessed to have, Jarod.
For those of you who knew Jarod and would like to celebrate his life, funeral services will be held this Saturday, December 3rd at 10:00 a.m. at Summers Funeral Homes Ustick Chapel.
Thank you so much for posting this Deserae. After i read this it put an ease to a lot. Jarod is with his little brother Jake and thats all he ever wanted. Again, thank you for writing this, it means a lot to me. I love you Deserae
ReplyDeletegreat tribute. i can only imagine the loss for everyone involved.
ReplyDeletebut you are putting it in such a positive light. one for everyone to grow from .
you girls are all strong cookies.
much love!
You have such a good heart. I'm sure he was just as fortunate to have you in his life as you were to have him! You are a constant inspiration to others and you prove it even further with heartfelt posts like this!
ReplyDeleteDeserae,
ReplyDeleteThank you for the reassurance from this post. I am really going to miss Jarod and the amazing, fun, loving person that he was. I know that he is looking down and will be a guide to all of us on our journey left here on earth. He will forever live in our hearts. Love you! Mom